Two Things That Make Ministry Hard

The three words I have often uttered to describe where I am in my ministerial career: "ministry is hard". Lately, I'm coming to learn that these words may actually be "full of it". While it is true, for me at least, the ministry was not a career move. I never chose ministry: ministry chose me. … Continue reading Two Things That Make Ministry Hard

Beneath Our Deepest Fears

It's been said that dreams reveal our subconscious: all the stuff we don't realize we're thinking. As a kid (and a few times as an adult) I would experience the terror of a recurring theme in my dreams. Something would happen and I would try to speak, only to realize nothing was coming out. I … Continue reading Beneath Our Deepest Fears

Not The Same

There is an age-old debate circulating the making of sandwiches, tuna, and potato salads. Mayo or Miracle Whip? While superficially, these two dressings look alike, use most of the same ingredients and operate with the same functions, there are distinct differences between the two. Mayo is typically heavier, and more tangy, and whipped dressings are … Continue reading Not The Same

Back To Life

I hate to say it, but reality is relative. We all have our own variations of what is real and what is not, and we subsequently live in response to the reality we choose. Where there was once absolutes surrounding things as fundamental as gender identification, we now live in a culture where all those concrete … Continue reading Back To Life

Apples To Pears

We tell people all the time, "Don't compare yourself to anyone else." "Embrace your own uniqueness." "There is only one YOU." Sure we say that stuff, but we really don't mean it. How many times have you gotten caught up in those discussions about your "top 5 rappers of all time"? People magazine does their … Continue reading Apples To Pears

Cocky

  Most of us didn't grow up on a farm, nor have we ever had to spend any extensive amounts of time with the barn yard animals. The most we know of the social inner workings at the barn is EB Whites's Charlotte's Web (one of my favorite animated movies ever, and I cry every time). In … Continue reading Cocky