I hate to say it, but reality is relative. We all have our own variations of what is real and what is not, and we subsequently live in response to the reality we choose. Where there was once absolutes surrounding things as fundamental as gender identification, we now live in a culture where all those concrete concepts are now being broken up, and we get live in our own relative realities.  (more…)

We are 10 days into the new year. As usual many of us have made resolutions to do better and be better, but unfortunately some have already fallen off the wagon. New year’s day always brings about a grand sense of renewed hope and optimism , but is rarely met with consistent discipline. I’m guilty of it too; hitting the ground running, but fizzling out almost as quickly as we blasted off.


Many of you reading this blog, are visionaries. Many of you are not satisfied with status quo, and you have a clear vision of your future.  Many of you know, beyond a shadow of doubt, that where you are going is so much better than where you’ve been. This is why you can never get distracted or discouraged  by what you see right now.  (more…)